For years we have complained that the "younger generation" doesn't care. They are the product of broken homes, disfunctional schools and an economy that offers little hope of success to the graduate of a public school. We complain that pop culture belittles the importance of education. Video games and entertainment glorify crime and violence. We have called our children a "lost generation" with good reason. Because they were and still are.
Liberals say all we have to do is put money into education to fix the problem. Conservatives tell us that it's the fault of kids with no drive to succeed. And both sides are right. Without the support of families and a quality education, the chance of a child succeeding is slim. Without a drive to succeed and a belief that success is a possibility, the child has NO chance of succeeding. Government can fix the schools, provide housing, food and medical care for the child....but it cannot convince a child that success is more than just a dream. It takes people to do that.
But today we stand a chance to make a difference. All across this country there are children who have watched the election of Barack Obama and now BELIEVE that anything really is possible. You don't have to play ball like Micheal Jordan or play guitar like Slash to succeed. Dreams have grown into possibilities.
On election night, I watched the results at a party. One of the guests was a young man who is from a single parent home. He had worked for the Obama campaign after school. I watched the look in his eye when it was announced that Obama had won. And after Obama had spoke that evening, I caught him alone in another room standing in front of a mirror giving his own "acceptance speech". His view of the world and it's possibilities changed that night. You watch the news and see countless examples of children inspired by an Obama presidency. And this inspiration has given us as adults the chance to reclaim at least part of a lost generation.
But thier inspiration will be shortlived and of little use if we do not try to nurture it. Don't get me wrong. We won't save them all. But the ones we do are worth the effort. Much like fishermen, Americans tend to fall into two categories: Those that focus on the "many that got away" and those that focus on "the catch we landed". It's fun to complain about the ones that got away but practical people who focus on catching fish...get to eat.
And so this year on Martin Luther King Day, take time to reflect on what YOU can do throughout the year to change a generation ripe for that change. Join a mentoring program or Big Brothers/Big Sisters. Get involved in your church's youth group. Do something weird like joining the PTA. Because for the first time in years, our children are open to our help. Some of them believe in new possibilities for thier lives. We need to be there for them. It's not a question of liberal or conservative, Christian or Athiest, Black or white. It's about our future, their future and the future of our nation.
"We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek. We are the hope of those boys who have little; who've been told that they cannot have what they dream; that they cannot be what they imagine. Yes they can."
Barack Obama, Super Tuesday, February 5, 2008
